Because of my participation in Susannah Conway's Unravelling course earlier this year, I still get her monthly newsletters, which lead me to places around the internet I wouldn't find on my own, like this Perfect Protest.
Now those who know me know I long, long ago gave up the idea of achieving perfection - or, at least, achieving the illusion of it, anyway. Just look at my kitchen counters. Or my laundry room. Or wardrobe. Or my hair. I don't try to be perfect in pretty much any area of my life.
So why care about this perfect protest? Well, I actually think we should all be reveling in our imperfections, not just accepting them. And this seemed like a good time to do just that - and maybe encourage a few of you out there to do the same.
So, borrowing from Susannah's List of Truths, I've included below my own short list of beautiful, interesting, intriguing imperfections:
- I rarely worry about stains. Like scars, they show life lived with a little recklessness.
- I am not scared or ashamed of hair: gray hair, eyebrow hair, body hair. I've been endowed with a lot of all of it, for reasons yet to be discovered.
- Occasionally, I like to cuss.
- I will eat just about any kind of preservative, flavor additive, or manufactured food coloring if it's on a potato chip.
- I dust six times a year. Maximum.
- When considering a decorative object for purchase, the main determining question is "Do I want to spend the rest of my life dusting this?"
- I like to ask questions. Most of the time, this works in my favor, but every so often, I wind up chewing on my big toe.
- I am compulsive about checking e-mail.
- I always have an opinion and am almost always willing to share it - even if you don't specifically ask to hear it.
- I am not interested in any dogma, belief, "lifestyle choice", whatever you want to call it, that might close me off to any of the experiences our world has to offer or limit my ability to get to know my fellow passengers on this journey of life.
- I LOVE corn dogs.

I think your "warning" statement would probably work on my entire blog. Hahaha. Like you, there are many areas of my life where I could care less about perfection. But just curious... do you have any areas of your life where perfectionism still has a little hold on you?
ReplyDeleteIn your recent years, I do fret over how my son's behavior (especially in public or around others) reflects on me. I want everyone to think he's a "really good boy" and I, therefore, am a really good mother. I'm letting go of that, but it is the thing that gets me.
ReplyDeleteAnd I think I don't strive for perfection not necessarily because I've gained some wisdom (at least not is all areas) - I'm really just flat-out lazy. And perhaps there's a little bit of not wanting to put a lot of effort into something and then still have it fail. If I just put in minimal effort, then I have an excuse. Guess I should add that to the list.
Oh, and spelling. I do strive for perfection in that. Always.
My wild wavy hair totally knows what you mean by laziness as a motivation for giving up on perfection.
ReplyDeleteMade my way over here via Brene site and your link up. Actually quite ramdomly. But I'm glad I did. Because I like the idea that not only should we protest, but we should embrace our non-perfectness. And I can relate to checking e-mail obsessively. I'm made of the same cloth. Take care!
ReplyDeleteMy friend Michelle's blog is called idon'tbelieveingrammer, which I find wildly genius. She simply types - ignores typos, incorrect word usage. She gets it out.
ReplyDeleteI can let my house go (for long, filthy stretches at a time), and I don't wax my brows, but I obsess over the perfect wording of every post.
Exhausting, I tell ya. To stop, I simply have to step away from the computer, and not do any housework.
By the way, can you believe Elizabeth will be SIX tomorrow?
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